Barbara101 wrote: I made myself a early dinner.Whatever was I thinking anyway,not really a fan of artichokes..
SO get this..Gal next door knocked a minute ago, to tell me she made split pea soup with pork chops...She is bringing me some at 7 and then she says ,do you drink? I said yes wine sometimes ,Oh can I come in and have some wine with you???? I was sure surprised and could not say no...Yikes..
Weird......
Weird? Not at all in my opinion. That's how I met both my neighbours when I moved into this condo building. One is single, a nurse, and as we chatted a bit in the elevator she said that she was exhausted from a 12 hour shift in the OR and I said "I've got some Chicken Cacciatore that needs to be shared, would you like to come for dinner???" She was so thankful, it was going to be a whole lot better than the bowl of cereal that she had waiting for her.
The neighbours on the other side were moving in, I had just made a pot of seafood chowder, I knocked on their door and asked if they would like some.
Another couple I met in the parking garage. They had a lot of groceries to take out of their car, she seemed to be walking with difficulty, I have a sturdy cart in my parking space, so I offered to help with their groceries................. Turned out that she's had a stroke which has affected the use of her right arm............. I had some stew in the oven.................... I have now washed and done her hair and she's also on the social committee in the building.
When I first moved into this building I noticed a Chinese lady, going up to the penthouse floor, one floor above me. She was always very quiet. One day she was wearing the most beautiful peacock blue dress in that gorgeous colourful brokade type fabric. I complimented her on it saying that she looked absolutely royal in it. She is a tiny lady, and I have found out that she is a local dentist. We're not at the "Come over and have a glass of wine" stage, and probably never will, but we chat a bit, and she now always smiles.
My motto is to make the effort, say hello, introduce yourself, the worst that someone can say is possibly "Go away, stop bothering me, crazy lady." So far, no one has done that.
So, Easter is coming, knock on someone's door and share that turkey.