Niagara Visitor wrote:Oh, absolutely both sons were here, as well as my niece and her partner/boyfriend (my late sister's daughter) This was family, no neighbours, though. Daughter-in-law's mother died last January, so her dad and her sister with her two daughters were here. That is the Hungarian branch. Sandie and her girls live in California (married an 'Merican! They live in one of the areas where the wildfires devastated so many homes.. They were OK, her husband owns a company that does disaster cleanup and has been very busy after the fires working for insurance companies.
Laughed at " 'Merican' ," Lore! Thank goodness Sandie and family made it through one of those disastrous fires in California. I admit to crying almost every newscast about it, especially when they show some poor soul whose home was lost. I always look at Brian, who usually is handing me a Kleenex he just pulled from my always handy box of them, and ask him if he can imagine just coming "home" and there's nothing there? Nothing! And you have to start all over. It's horrendous for anyone, of course, but my heart really breaks for those who have already reached retirement age and then lose everything they have, including photos, mementos, memories... Though her husband's company is I'm sure going through a "boom" of sorts, it must be a difficult time for him to deal with so many who've lost so much.
Niagara Visitor wrote:I had one disaster in my meal, though. I made a large coleslaw, and accidentally used a hot sauce instead of a spiced oil, tried to tone it down with sugar, that didn't work. In retrospect, the cabbage and carrots could have been rinsed with cold water by putting it in a colander and running cold water over it. Oh well, I think it will join the "Remember when mom baked a disasterous chocolate cake???" In that disaster I used unsweetened chocolate, and forgot to adjust the sugar. That day my family said for me to stick to what I know how to do................. cook seafood! Oh well, it makes everyone appreciate what I do well, and it was a good laugh.. I don't get upset about stuff like that.
Those kinds of cooking snafus are usually hilarious when they end up functioning as family fodder over the years, like your chocolate cake did! Yep, getting upset when we make a blunder while cooking serves no purpose -- and if you did that in MY family when growing up, it just meant they'd bring it up MORE often until one learned how to laugh about it like the rest of them! In my case, you quickly learned to show only a stiff upper lip about stuff the rest of the family teased you about OR ELSE!