bethk wrote:Good to hear from you, Niagara. How's your husband doing?
And have you moved into your condo yet? I've thought of you often....
Thanks for asking. Hubby is doing as well as can be expected of a disease for which there are no treatments, no cure in sight. He has what they gently call "settled in" in the home. He is pleasant, the staff all love him. Aggression, which can be part of many of these debilitating diseases is, according to the research rare. I sincerely hope so.
There have been two relatively serious bouts of aggression by one poor old soul toward me in particular. I think I remind her of someone in her past, when I have taken hubby out into the hallway I think she thinks I am taking her husband away. I don't take it personally. She doesn't show any aggression toward hubby when our son is with him, so it's me, unfortunately.
I have had many discussions regarding the elderly with my sister a retired psychiatric RN, who worked with the elderly most of her nursing life, so I am probably a little more informed about some of these things than many.
No, I have not moved into the condo. I take possession on Tuesday, Nov. 26. Took a final walk-through with the real estate agent on Friday, just to make sure that everything is the way it is supposed to be. I am even more pleased with it than I was at first. The company that did the renovation from two bedrooms to a one bedroom unit did a fabulous job. There is lots of well placed storage room. The place is immaculate.
I have not sold the farm, but am expecting an offer any day now. A family has been here three times now. They really, really want the place, but were having some difficulty with finances. They came again yesterday and said that their financing is now in place and they will give me an offer. I just hope that they do not think that I am desperate just because I have purchased a condo. As I have said to my agent "I really would like to be out of here, but the proverbial financial wolf is not howling in the yard, or circling yet!"