Does he remember? Perhaps there's a selective memory in play?????
I have a new GIG! I am going to be preparing occasional meals for a couple here in the building. Dyanna was a member of our social committee when I first moved in here, she's had a couple of strokes and other problems, so she can't do much any more. So, I asked her husband if they are interested in having me prepare a meal occasionally. They are thrilled. They have no allergies, no particular dislikes and he said I should just surprise them. Not too spicy for her, and he can add spice if he wants. I told him that I am "not doing this just out of the goodness of my heart" and that I want him to pay for the ingredients.
I just went shopping for the vegetables that I expect to use, some I have in my fridge, like carrots and potatoes, so while at the store, I just took pictures of the prices of various veggies by weight, and I will weigh what I use. My first dinner will be a meatloaf and oven roasted vegetables. I don't expect or want to make any money from this. I cooked a stew for them a few years ago when she was not well, and they loved it, so I think they will be happy.
Of course, whatever I make for them will also be on my menu!