Barbara101 wrote:maybe I should not say this but I need to vent.
PPl just don't do family get togethers the way it used to be. Nor do they have any or much interest in what the day really is.
To most ,,it is all about the sales.
I end up making the plans. I end up buying the food. I end up fixing it.I end up grilling. I end up cleaning up.
everyone sits & plays with their phone ..eats then has somewhere else to go. DD has to nap before work,she works all night. 2 of the older boys have GFs.
so that is my holiday cooking & having a get together..
I get so tired of it all.........
I get oh that was great. Thanks.
I agree with you 100% Barbara.
I don't mind the cooking and prep and the mess, but Geeze! At least offer to (speaking about the kids) Take the garbage out, or jump up and load the dishwasher.
The kids are great. Don't get me wrong. But they have a different way of doing things, and that is "L A S T Minute!"
Now! ... (venting too) Here is a prime example!
The oven has the roast or turkey baking, and DD will come over with the Asparagus she was supposed to bring over, and she will take over the kitchen counter's with the asparagus or and the Broccoli ...and Raw!! Start trimming them, and then asking,"When's the oven gonna be ready for this...I I I have to cook these!! Where Where Where is the steamer basket....then in the back room shoving and throwing and moving and dropping all the pots and pans whilst looking for the steamer basket.
Leaves the other stuff on the floor because she is too late and last minute to get the veggies cooked.
Uhhh! I said,"Is thre a way that you can make all this **it at home and we can just re-heat it to a higher temperature??"" ... NO NO NO dad....That's stupid!
Grrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!
And then they use every available knife or spoons and mixing utensils without just rinsing and re-using.
She does mean well, and she does clean up (her own way) but when all is done, I will have a i.e. a cup of peas in a quart container, or the leftovers divied up between the upstairs and downstairs refrigerator. And then...if they cannot find the right top (which is there if they spend time to look ) they just put foil or saran wrap to cover it. Grrrrrrr!!
They use NOoooo Planning what so ever!